Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert & Holistic Life Coach

That’s right!  You can only control you. All this time you thought that you had control over_____you fill in the blank.  But you didn’t!  You can’t control how people are going to react.  You didn’t have control over anyone, but you. 

For a variety of reasons we have created the illusion of being in control,and it is just that, an illusion.  Because when people places and things no longer react the way we want them to, our illusion of control is shattered.    Understanding how to integrate control in your life and the role it plays is one of the important key in you succeeding.

I want to be free to live my life has a wealth of meaning.  Does it mean free from drama, chaos, parents, spouses, siblings, friends and children.   Or does it mean a difference in the relationship with self and others.  Or free from ill health, overweight, cooking, cleaning, shopping, car pooling and paying bills.  Or does it mean doing all the above, but somehow differently.  The meaning of freedom is a uniquely intimate thing.  It is as intimate as drawing the breath of life we need to sustainus.  

Freedom speaks of our will to do that which we want to do…or that which we choose to do.  So, you want to be free to live your life?  My question to you would be, “how do you know that you are not free and not livingthe life that you want to live?” 

Did you know thatyour choices, the choices that you make in life are considered a contractualagreement?  An agreement that has been signed sealed and delivered byyou!   Did you know that your choice/contract is between you and theUniverse, and as such is Universally binding?

Your choice invokes the Universal Law of Free Will. How you exercise yourability to choose is the key to everything that you want in this life and thenext. Before you can have "it" whatever, "it" is, you mustfirst choose "it."   Everything in your life the good, the bad,the ugly, the sad and the beautiful is there as a result of your choices.

Do you understand the power to be had in your conscious choice?  

Can you trust you?  If not you then who?  Do you trust YOU with your life.  Do you trust the choices that you are currently making are in the best interest of self?  The ability to trust you, consciously without reservation will allow you to create the life that you want to live, by taking the most direct route.

Join us live, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Coach and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley on Wednesday @ 1.00PM  PST on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice as we discuss YOU and the empowerment you will experience by trusting YOU implicitly.  Unable to join us live?  Download the archived podcast edition at http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com/apps/podcast/

Do you want miracles to happen in your life?  Many of us have prayed for a miracle, longed for a miracle, even witnessed other people’s miracles.  We often speak in lamentable terms of miraculous things happening, secretly believing that what we are asking for will never ever happen.  We may even have experience a miracle or two.  But what many of us fail to realize is that no matter what unfolds in our lives "we are the miracle!" 

Join Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Art as we look at miracles.

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There is a presence in your life that is constant in all things.  It’s the common denominator.  This presence is in everything that you do; everything that you think, everything that you say.  It’s present in the good times and bad times.  It’s in your breath, your life…it’s even in your death. 

This presence is with you throughout eternity.  It can never be destroyed, it can only move into form and out of form, evolving with every chrysalis and metamorphosis into something new.

 “What is the common denominator in your life?” 

Join us, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the “denominator” and what it means to you, your choices and creating the life that you want to live.

Do interventions work?  What is the success rate and is there a tried and tested format that can be used? 

When deciding on trying to help a loved one using an intervention there are many things that must be considered.  The biggest is whether or not the person will accept what is being offered...and what to do if they don't.

A follow up to the episode aired 5.5.2011 on parallel lives. We have had so much interest in the episode on parallel lives.  Many people have asked how do we step into the parallel life that we want. Join us as we look ways in which you can make this happen!

Today we have Pam Oslie back with us and she will be taking us on a Journey of parallel lives, the scientific theories behind it and what that really means to and for us.  Pam is an author, lecturer and psychic and quantum physicist and the found of Love colors internet dating website.  Join us for a show of unparalleled interest.

In our coaching session today we are going to look at why we don't hear ourselves and why we don't hear others. It's all in how we listen. Practicing "cooperative listening" can radically change the way you communicate with yourself and other.